Start with ME
If you’re here, something isn’t working — and you already know it.
It’s not effort.
It’s not knowledge.
It’s not ability.
It’s your leadership patterns under pressure.
The ones you’ve outgrown.
The ones you’ve been avoiding.
The ones you can’t outwork anymore.
The “Start with Me” conversation is where we get brutally honest about:
- What’s actually happening
- What it’s really costing you
- And what changes when you stop shrinking
The Real Reason You Landed Here
You’ve been leading with:
- Over-responsibility
- Hesitation
- Avoidance
- Overthinking
- Decision drag
- Softening expectations
- Carrying what others should own
- Underplaying your own authority
You’re functioning.
You’re succeeding.
But you’re not performing at the level you know you can.
That’s the real gap.
What this conversation is (and isn't)
This is NOT:
- A sales pitch
- A “clarity call”
- A motivational talk
- A chance to vent
- Another strategy session you forget by next week
This IS:
- A direct look at your leadership patterns
- A confrontation with what you’ve been avoiding
- A clean analysis of your performance gap
- A naming of the stakes if you keep operating this way
- A grounding in what’s required of the leader you’re becoming
If we’re not a fit, I’ll tell you.
If we are, you’ll know quickly.
What we do in the conversation
1. We slow the noise down.
You already know what the real issue is — you’ve just been outrunning it.
2. We name the pattern.
Avoidance?
Control?
Inconsistency?
Soft standards?
Over-functioning?
Under-expecting?
Waiting for the “right time”?
We’ll call it what it is.
3. We identify the cost.
This isn’t about emotion.
It’s about consequence.
What is this pattern costing your:
- results
- relationships
- leadership
- time
- energy
- team
- identity
- future
4. We define the alternative.
Not some aspirational version — the actual version of you your next level demands.
5. We decide if we work together.
And if we do, we choose the right container:
- 1:1 Coaching
- Growth Collective
- Team Coaching
This work isn't for everyone
You’re ready for this conversation if:
- You’re done hiding behind competence
- You’re done shrinking when pressure rises
- You want accountability without babysitting
- You want clarity backed by consequence
- You want performance, not encouragement
- You’re tired of operating below your true capability
- You’re ready to lead differently — not just work harder
The next step
If you want someone to believe in you, hire someone else.
If you want someone to demand more from you — let’s talk.